My Deliverer

I remember it like yesturday, my now Church Pastor asked me, " How's School?" Little did he know the girl he had seen grow up and seemed to do well though out grade school, was now ingulfed in the sexual exploited  scene of this world. How it's normal for an average college female to not reach graduatation unless she had one or more pre marital sex partners. I answered the question HONESTLY and repeated, "Not good, here is what happened", and as faithful as the spirt of Christ in him he asked. " Would you like to give your life to Jesus Christ?" Without hesitation I said "YES" and confessed my sins. I was DONE hiding under my  fake Christian viel! I was done knowing a Jesus all my life but never knowing what He could truly do for me. I cry for all those in my family and around me who continue to hide under the viel of fake Christianity. I pray for the shackles of deception and sin be taken  away. God thank you for being OUR AND MY ULTIMATE DELIVER!! MY LIFE would NEVER BE WHERE IT IS RIGHT NOW!! God wants you tonight to TAKE AND UNMASK the secret and Dark SPACS he already knows. 
 Hebrews 13:9 God will judge all adulters.
Galatians 5 God will judge the hyprocitries, liers, and fornicators. 

But He is so faithful to have you make Him your deliverer too!!

Are you converted?

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This was a topic the Lord laid on my heart to speak on since last year. Of course when the Lord tells you to do something we must obey and obey immediately, because He knows why He asks things of us, we can't see that far ahead in the future. So I did have to repent to God, although God has totally blessed me and improved my life for the better 😉. If you are on social media you have heard the news, and the beautiful physical manifestation of this blog. I truly allowed God to write my love story. I will announce it here with a blog post after a surprise proposal that's being planned for me. Don't ask me. lol I have no idea when and where, I just have my hopes and dreams, and hinted a few things on Pinterest and on a power-point (GOL..giggle out loud)But I have been quite busy. From completing my Paralegal program, helping my sisters and catering to my family, working,and being super active in church among other things. But the tugging on my heart to write and release this blog has finally reached the point that I have to.I get this question a lot but most recently quite often. How did I feel when I became Born Again? Was there a change? What happens after that.I have touched on many blogs on the steps and gifts we that have confessed Jesus Christ are to seek for, once we accept Him. The gift of Sanctification which can be read HERE and the gift of the Holy Ghost, written HERE.

But when I became born again, meaning I took the steps noted on the 'I want to know Jesus' PAGEI felt a sense of urgency to want to get to know Jesus better, to tap into this power I have always heard about in church all my life, and to turn from my old ways. So I knew from the night before at a singles conference, I couldn't bring along my ex-boyfriend. I just knew from the little things I knew of a holy God, I couldn't drink what I used to drink, go to the places clubs, parties, hangouts I used to go, and I couldn't have the same friends I used to have. The thing was it JUST didn't work out that way. I kept in touch with my boyfriend for a month after my Born Again date. It was a typical relationship, ups and downs due to the emotions of me wanting to break up and him wanting to keep me. SO I would read my bible, and while all these changes inwardly were going on and I was realizing Jesus had come for the fornicating, lying, serial dating, and stealing girls like me, I would go back to engaging in my old lifestyle of conversation with my ex-bf. I would listen to the music that Jesus would never listen to with all the lust and words of this world.The fact is I WAS NOT CONVERTED. UNTIL I decided to take what I was reading in the bible and what I was being convicted off in my heart and ACT on it.Many Christians are simply NOT converted.  They take what they hear in the churches they go to, bible and books they read, and even things they get convicted of and throw it by the wayside. I am convinced of this because people in their outward and inward look the same, with a Christ labeled t-shirt, and Christ logo on their social media. Christians join organizations of the world, but put a christian tag on it, like Jesus really approved of fraternities and sororities for example. Christ called Christians to be  truly part of ONE organization and that was to be His Church, and His Church only.
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H O W  TO  K N O W  I F  Y O U  A R E  T RU L Y   CO N V E R T E D: 

  1. You can internally mark your old life and your new life in Christ. There is no blur or confusion that the music, attitude, dressing and friends you had before you decided to follow Jesus, is still marked as your identity to others. It reads in:

    Ephesians 4:22-24

    22 You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires;23 to be made new in the attitude of your minds;24 and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. 
  2. You have identified your sin, and are putting clear road blocks to not go back to them. Like  for me, dating and flirting with men were my sins. So I stopped getting every guys phone number or adding them on social media. I wouldn't talk to any man, Christian or not after 11pm. If stealing is yours, you meditate on scripture on stealing and when you are near things you steal you move away immediately.  Although conversion is not sanctification, it is a step before. It needs to happen because it sets up the thirst and hunger needed for God to take away your old heart and put in a new on which is sanctification. It reads in:

    James 4:8

    8 Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts                                                                                                                  ❤️
  3. Lastly the desire to want to read the word of God, fellowship with people who have identified with Christ, and the amount of time you want to spend getting to know more of God must and will increase. If you are a Christian and you find yourself decreasing in wanting to spend time with God, you must seek conversion. Yes people may say this is a troubled time for the individual and they just need time to bounce back, but if its constant behavior then the mind of Christ that must be LEARNED from by Him alone must be done so. We read this in 

Romans 12:1-2

12 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.
And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

Ultimately authentically repenting, and hatred of sin;a deep and true commitment to wanting to take Jesus seriously, will lead your spirit man to become converted. Conversion is the catalyst needed after salvation to set off a prosperous Christian life. God is calling YOU to be converted today. If you haven't said yes to Jesus, will you say Yes to him today. He doesn't want you struggling in the secret. Jesus wants to teach you the survival skills no other book or religion can truly teach you But what the Bible and the Holy Spirit that is given to those who trust in Him. Will you accept Jesus? Then will you seek conversion? 

On my trip to London back in May 2015
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Thursday March 5th, 2015

I pray anyone reading this is in good health. If like me there has been a whirlwind of things happening, maybe your home or space where you go to relax may not be the best oasis to go to, I want to encourage you to be still and know the Lord hasn't forsaken you. He is right there with you, rooting for your life, He has a plan for you. Setting our eyes and hope in Him, we gain that everlasting peace. 

Before I go into the blog, I would like to explain why I used the word "dating" in the title. I have received deep understanding and revelation on how the Lord wants us to conduct relationships His way. As Christians we actually are not called to date, but enter into courtship...(you can read the difference between the two HERE)  I used the word because in the world, the word dating is synonymous with courtship and I wanted a space where those that profess Christ, could come to learn God's standards of relationships accompanied with their bible. 

If you've been following my blog you know the Lord placed in my heart 10 topics to blog about. This will be blog number seven and I am grateful to God its on a topic that the church needs major reform in. In a God lead world, the first person you choose to pursue would be the only one you marry, choose to love, commit yourself to and even have sex with. That is what God's will is, and even though right now the world may not see this as the way to go, those in the church should really want to adopt this ideal because there is always a blessing when obeying God. 

The first thing to consider when looking to enter a relationship is this bible verse found in 

Colossians 2:8

Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.

As followers of Christ, this verse talks to those in the church. It makes us understand we are not to follow the traditions of man, but the instructions of Christ.  When it comes to dating, the traditions of the world leave pieces of you with other people, it leaves you emotionally scared and wounded, and more than likely would cause you to remain single much longer than God intended for you to remain. 

I. Let's first talk about the Act of dating and location

You know the typical date the world tells you to set up. Boy meets girl and asks her out, or now a days many woman will ask men out(I have been there sighs), and then the typical outing happens, a date to the movies, restaurant, or any other venue. At the end of the these dates the world portrays there is something scandalous that has to happen whether its just a kiss on the first date, second base on the  second day, and maybe full on sex on the third date. This is just how the world see things.

As Christians we don’t want to associate with this ideology of dating before marriage. I heard this awesome quote, that "I should want to date my husband AFTER I married". That's exactly it!! When we are married we can enjoy our husbands with as many bases we want to cross, and go to any location we want to go to. But the world sees dating as an act to be done before marriage. This is what as caused so many homes to split apart once married, and so many singles who desire marriage to remain single. The life long mystery that's to be found in another person , which is what makes marriage exciting to enter,  gets stripped away when we choose to date, over-romanticize and even have sex before committing to marriage.

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II. So Janet how do we get to find our spouse if we don't go on dates pre-marriage

Sister,  it's really simple. As a Christian we are to live in the spirit and not the flesh so therefore in finding a spouse we are to pray. There is NOTHING more, we cannot find out, than in prayer. A strong relationship with God through prayer is the best way for God to reveal your spouse to you. Throughout the bible, God has and does encourages us a pray. God has revealed many things to many bible characters through prayer. 

Galatians 5:16

This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.

Philippians 4:6

-in every thing by prayer and supplication with.. let your requests be made known unto God.

Mark 11:24
I tell you, you can pray for anything, and if you believe that you’ve received it, it will be yours.

Prayer is a mystery so this may be a concept you may not fully understand, especially if you've dated the world's way. But it's important to know, now we are in Christ his ways are NOT of this world. We must renew our minds and go back to His original plan of things. It's the only way to have a love story written by Him.  In prayer you can ask God in general what his plans are for your life in the area of marriage; Or you can bring a specific name to God and ask if that person is God's will for you. God will  answer you if you have a relationship with him. If you are serving him, he will respond. It may not be in a loud audible voice but he will reveal himself through the impression of the heart, whether you have heartaches or you have peace, or he will just reveal positive or negative things about a person through the course of time. Prayer also helps avoid falling into sexual temptation. As a child of God, you really don’t need to go out with a person initially to get to know them. Pray to get conformation that they are the one for you, then you can start to talk to them get to know them, and hang out with them in person when you definitely know marriage is the goal in the very near future. Conviction is what solidifies our actions in the spiritual realm, conviction is what we should strive for with our future spouse. 

III. Lastly dating prepares you for a lifetime of skewed love. 

While we may think dating and going out with guy 1,2,3,4 and up is harmless and is just a routine we need to go through to find our spouse, in fact it sets us up to think love is superficial, easily broken and does not posses the characteristics of love portrayed in the bible. When we get married, the endurance needed to stay married to our spouse through aging and stressful times that may occur, would have been wasted while we went on a roller coaster of test driving people in our single(being in a relationship and not married means you are still single) years. Does it really make sense for us to say we want to marry one person for the rest of our lives, but then sleep with 1,2,3,4,5 guys before that? Or date 12 people and kiss those twelve?

As I also prepare for the next phase in my life, the Lord put this thought in my mind. He told me, He sees my desire for marriage but am I willing to stay and be committed through thick and thin, would I leave or lose my salvation if something devastating happened to my future husband a short while into my marriage. The point is societies image of marriage is so damaging, and to desire this institution, to enter this institution, you must be ready for the inevitable. I must have conviction so deep about who I marry, that NOTHING the Lord has put together shall be separated. The world makes relationships romantic, fun, lovey dovey, and sex filled. Real love is comforting and can be romantic but it transcends these surface level thinking. It is taking someone else as your own skin and loving them no matter what. How you prepare for marriage is important, and it must start with our thinking. 

Dating the world's way, what you see on most Lifetime movies, reality shows, 50 shades of Gray, and romance books, will cause you to fail in building endurance in a relationship. As Christians, God wants a different story for us, he wants our love to last so we cannot do things the worlds way. 

Singles, God is preparing a love story that will be worth the wait in doing it His way!

To be able to get God's best for you, you must have a relationship with him. There was a time when I  would profess to be a Christian but still lived in deep sin. For God to hear your prayers concerning this area, and allow you to pursue a Godly relationship His way and not worlds way, you must confess your sins, turn from ways that displease God and choose to serve him. To start this relationship with God check out this page.

John 9:31

Now we know that God heareth not sinners: but if any man be a worshipper of God, and doeth his will, him he heareth.

 I can't wait to hear the testimony of God's will being done in your life, because you choose to do things His way and not the world's way 

(At a political campaign kickoff )

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My Academic Testimony

Tuesday January 29th, 2014  
A lot of people have asked me how I have been so successful in school.
Well here it is!

My testimony about my academic success. By God's grace this is my last semester at my present college.
I want to give God the glory and encourage ANYONE feeling down and out about their academics, and social life within college.

Jesus‬ turned my ENTIRE SITUATION around all by saying YES to HIM!
God is looking to make your life a testimony too! If you allow Him to come in, and build an intentional relationship with Him.
I couldn't link my one year in Christ Testimony in the video, but here it is:

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God How do I forgive?

Monday December 29th, 2014  

Congrats to all the college/professional students on successfully finishing this past fall semester.  Through the stress you got through it, and if you love the Lord as much as I do, you know it was ONLY by the grace of God!  :)
If you have been following my blog and read the last 5 posts you are aware the Lord gave me ten topics he wanted me to write on, so far I have written 5 of those topics. I wanted to write the other 5 but then I lost the journal where I had listed them out and here we are 2 more days till the new year and I am now getting a deep impression of the heart(how God speaks to me) to write a blog. This blog isn't going to be the 6th topic the Lord had given me two months ago which may come out before 2015, who knows, but today I am going to talk about forgiveness. That pill we all NEED to take.

Are you still upset about that guy that you had made a husband in your heart, although he never told you he was, but then he did you wrong?
That guy who did say he was your husband and he loved you, then he either cheats on you, or violates you, or goes running off and leaves you out of no where?
A family member, close family friend or a co-worker hurt you whether it was today, yesterday, or 10 years ago?
If you've answered YES to any of the questions above then this blog is for you!
I remember just 2 months ago, I had just finished texting one of my best friends and she was telling me I just couldn't cut a guy off and not pray for him if he was struggling. It didn't help that text came right before I had to enter church that Sunday! :/
    What had happen was there was this one guy that had pursued me in my head, before he had ever thought to pursue me for real, and he was now attending my church. Can you imagine that ex you never want to see again, now you see every week?! lol well that was the scenario. To my surprise I see him in church the first week and I am like ok I def don't care, then the second week came around and feelings of sadness, anger, confusion arise and I am just like REALLY?! I thought I had forgiven this guy and moved I tell my friend how I am feeling and that's where her advice came from. Forgive for real, don't cut him off, keep him at a distance and pray for him. [end of story]
What happens when we don't forgive someone for real.. is it
  • eats at YOU,
  • takes away your precious time worrying and hurting about a person who has LONG moved on from the issue.
What happened to me and the guy above was I had just rolled my feelings of him off, blocked him off of social media, did a 2.5 second prayer and thought I had forgiven him, well that was WRONG. I hadn't truly forgiven him, I had put a corner of a fire blanket to put out the fire on my scorned heart rather than put the entire fire blanket over the fire and just forgive all  together! But JANET, "how do I go about forgiving then?" Well here is how the Lord tells us to do it, and when you do, not only will you feel better, but you will feel lighter by not allowing someone else to stir your life and emotions except God:

1. Make up your mind to forgive. You've heard this before, the first step to doing anything is to say YES to the change. You have to mentally and physically tell yourself you want to move on from this issue and be at peace with yourself and with the person. Take the step today, its a gift to yourself.

2. God won't forgive you unless you forgive the person. If we look to God as our ultimate father, the best husband and guide to the best life, to not have him forgive us when we fall short will not put us on his good side and that's always where we want to be. We need to accept this and we must forgive so God can also forgive us.
3. Pray for that person. Let everything, EVERY last hurt and pain of that person, from the smallest matter to the biggest of hurts known to God. What prayer does, by speaking it out to God not only in your heart, allows you to let go of the load you have been carrying no matter how long you've kept it. Prayer is the secret to forgiveness. It allows God to overtake you with such a peace!

So, I did all three of these and I can say I have forgiven that brother. Knowing he won't be the last to hurt me is also something I have come to understand. As humans we will hurt each other, I know that this wont be the last time I will have to forgive! I am sure this goes for you too!

As you've finally let go of that hurt by forgiving the person who has hurt you, I would like to ask have you forgiven yourself? I am not sure what you are carrying within yourself that is slowing you down or causing you to not love yourself. Maybe somesort of sin, or self pity as overtaken your life. You may find yourself drinking and getting drunk, sleeping with multiple men, watching violent acts of pornography, cheating on your husband, lying, and stealing etc. I remember feeling like I couldn't forgive myself at one point in my days of deep sin ,two years ago but someone came to give you and me that power to forgive even ourselves! His name is Jesus. He came to give you a life where you can love yourself and your life again! All you have to do is tell God the sins you've been battling with, and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and savior to cleanse away your old life and give you a brand new one.
There is no use in forgiving others and forgetting yourself. Your soul deserves ultimate rest and peace as well!

2 Corinthians 5:17

Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.

Be Free, you've been made whole! I love you and I am praying for you!

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Greek Life and the Christian Life

Tuesday November 25th, 2014 

I started a series of 10 things the Lord laid on my heart to write on, and this topic being number 5. Despite the stance on politics and  popular culture, the ways of God and the Word of God stands supreme. To be a Christian is to follow the ways of God... and to follow Him is to believe in Him undeniably...and in doing that you receive blessings according to your obedience and faith and finally in turn you are rewarded by ruling with Him in Heaven.

As a true believer in Christ you must follow Christ undeniably and truly make him your all. Christians have a right in Christ that He will open all the doors needed to succeed in life, because his blessings are not from man who can take it away, but from Him which last forever. (Proverbs 10:22) Greek life is not for the Christian.  Jesus does not condone social fraternity or sororities, contrary to popular believe it does not help you move up in life if you truly believe Jesus is your provider and source of all things, He is all you need to move up in life.

So you ask should Christians join a fraternity or sororities, especially if one has eyes set on heaven, the simple answer is NO.

In considering the definition, motive, induction, history and heart behind social fraternities and sororities in and out of academic institutions, they do not line up with the Words of the bible and the heart of Christ. We will also look into Christians who have taken the frame work of secular social Greek organization and stated because "hazing" now is memorizing scripture, it's different. Christians looking for a place to fellowship and create sisterhood and brotherhood was first mentioned in  Matthew 16, the "church" I think God's way is sufficient enough.

Before going into the background of Greek Organization, those in one and those considering, the first question we ask ourselves is why do we want to join one?

I remember my journey in wanting to join a National Pan Hellenic Council (divine nine) black Greek sorority back at  my old university. They looked like the prettiest, most successful girls on campus. Their history and founders were some of the top woman in the professional sphere, worldwide. I loved their colors, and I felt like I bonded with the already inducted members running the chapter on campus. But, I remember one night during the last week before the semester's Rush(A meeting where interested members go to hand in their application to join the org.), I had brought drinks to an invite only girls late night chit-chat with existing members. It started out  with casual conversations but soon after, was the typical girl talk happening of gossip and name calling. What became worse was the members were just talking about other members within their chapter and other outside chapters or their organizations. I am sure because I wasn't totally sold out to God I joined in, although I do remember being cordial as I was trying to impress them. But talk about sisterhood, every family fights but to pay into a network of such brokenness to feel accepted and pretty, which the Lord according to my belief, did for FREE on the cross, doesn't really make sense.

I share that story because you have to ask why you want to join one of these organizations. What is your motive? Is it for man's opinions or the Lord's opinion. Let's see what this verse says:

1 Samuel 16:7
 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
Your motive matters to the Lord. Especially to join social Greek organizations a lot of us back then, and I am sure many will do this the future, was to fluff up and make the Rush application more impressive. One may put they would like to join to give back to the world or gain leadership experiences, which are all great but in a Greek life context on a college campus that can get lost. As mentioned above my own motives were shallow and dealt with the appearance of the organization because many Greek orgs. do put a lot on the physical and the bible warns of us this.
Romans 12:16
Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.

1 Peter 5:5-7
In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because,

“God opposes the proud
    but shows favor to the humble.”
 Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
The Bible repeatedly encourages humility both in life and in the choice of one's companions. I understand college is a place with many other clubs as well promote instilling leadership qualities in all it's students. But there is a certain arrogance that can come from Greek organizations, which  we need to be careful of, even if its not necessarily you yourself as someone that's not humble, but the culture of Greek life is one of rivalry on the surface.  
The culture of Greek Life also promotes a life that isn't consistent with the bible, such as partying, binge drinking and the likes. As believers we are to leave our old life and to not be of this world although we are in it. I have been told by people who have now been saved by the Lord, they stay in the organizations to maybe share the gospel with their members, well if the Lord is leading you in that direction go with the leading; but to go to events where the spirit of God is not present, is not wise and that we need to careful with.
1 Peter 4:3 (NLT)
You have had enough in the past of the evil things that godless people enjoy—their immorality and lust, their feasting and drunkenness and wild parties, and their terrible worship of idols.

 I know in college the loneliness factor is real. I have felt it, especially if you are dorming and that's when sin can really creep up. So companionship is something we really crave. We need to channel these cravings to seeking people that truly want to glorify God and hearts that reflect the mind of Christ. Although I am going to briefly talk about the idol history of Greek organizations below, many Greek organizations want you to view their members as blood brothers and sisters, even closer than your family. Some organizations go as far as branding with an hot iron (practices that were suppose to be cancelled but aren't), and even exchanging blood by fingers.

The reality for believers in Christ is that our closest relationships must be authentic Christ worshippers and followers, not Greek life members. I know the argument is social Greek orgs are so big, and many orgs span across many states and countries so one can fall into a click of Christians apart from the organization as an all, which is fine, but these organizations promote sisterhood and one person's personality is consistent and can be the face with the  personality of the entire organization.
Galatians 3:28
There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. 

1 Corinthians 12:24-26
while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts that lacked it, 25 so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. 26 If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it.

Lastly, Greek life is deeply rooted in idolatry and the bible specifically warns us about delving into associations like that.

Deuteronomy 13:6-8
If your very own brother, or your son or daughter, or the wife you love, or your closest friend secretly entices you, saying, “Let us go and worship other gods” (gods that neither you nor your ancestors have known, gods of the peoples around you, whether near or far, from one end of the land to the other), do not yield to them or listen to them. Show them no pity. Do not spare them or shield them.

It's been stated that Greek life can be a  mystery religion. In a nutshell, these organizations are occult societies because they are secret, exclusive organizations open only to the initiated, hazed, and or pleaded into which still till this day can be very dangerous.

Occult: That which is done in secret; disclosed or communicated only to the initiated;
hidden from view; of or pertaining to magic, astrology, or any system claiming use
or knowledge of secret or supernatural powers or agencies.

Christ does nothing in secret and He says that all things which are hidden shall be brought to the light. Neither is Christianity exclusive, but is open to all who will place faith in Jesus.  Consider this as well. What does it mean to be initiated? An initiation is the ceremonies or rituals of admission. A ritual is an established or prescribed procedure for a religious and spiritual rite. These types of acts done in three letters, or two letters organizations are really forbidden and insulting to the Lord. It basically blocks your blessings.

Christians that have formed social fraternities and sororities and tacked on the name of Jesus to it, should not get the argument that everything on earth must be bought back by the Lord. Greek life was never ordained by the Lord, and is a form of idolatry and that needs to be cleared up once and for all.

I love that in this generation, social media  and the internet can help solve at least one thing by showing us many successful people that Have not joined any Greek organizations to get where they are, like Dr. Ben Carson for starters! Google him.

 I loved when I asked my mentor why she didn't join any, because I consider her successful as a Ph.D candidate, wife, mother, and a Child of God; and she simply stated she just didn't feel she needed to. I totally understood and got it, and I agreed, with  Christ as your guide you don't need anyone but Him directing and giving you that support and network you need. Not discrediting a spouse, but you get it.

No org should be your identity and that is what Greek organizations tend to do with all the gear, and all that. Nothing, and no one including the college or university we go to  should be our idol.. What's really worth dying for on this earth, when eventually we will all pass on anyway. We can't hold anything on earth too tightly , but something we must want to think about, strive for, sow money into, time, and souls for is our eternal life. Have you thought about your eternal life? I myself was raised to understand that eternity was real, but never really understood it until actually this date two years ago. I knew that my actions mattered and would be weighed upon my death by a one true God, and that there is a higher being that can shower you with wisdom to help enrich your life, and there is a devil that can shatter and waste your life by following him. I want to give you an invite to gain wisdom and give your life to a God that won't stir you wrong. That will challenge you to live a life with purpose, that will fill your loneliness to not have to pay a large amount of money, or be ridiculed to join an organization that's deeply seeded in unrighteousness, a God that will take away the sins that boggle you down , like porn, sex, stealing, lying, jealousy, and evil speaking, a God that will love you unconditionally  in your time of weakness, I want to invite you to say YES to Jesus.  I said yes to him two years ago and it was the BEST decision I ever made. Every milestone since then has been of HIS doing, no Greek Org needed, and I have peace and his Blessings add no sorrow!!

Princeton's Sexuality, Integrity and the University conference.

Thank you for reading. As always I am praying for everyone of you. If you have anything to add, on Greek life and the Christian Life, leave a comment below. If you would like to ask me any personal questions, you can private message me on any of my social medias or email me at God Bless you!

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