Sunday November 3rd, 2013
He feels ashamed that he is walking in Purity.
He feels ashamed that he actually has OBEYED God's commandments.
He feels ashamed that if he stays pure till marriage he will be sharing an unbreakable covenant with his wife, and wont have to explain why he inserted himself into other females but didn't see them worthy to marry.
He feels ashamed his marriage bed will not be undefiled.
He feels ashamed that he has not gotten a sexual transmitted diseases(yes you can get it other ways other than sexual intercourse,but its rare)
He feels ashamed he doesn't have a child out there he can't support and has never had to be faced in asking a girl to keep or not keep a baby
He ultimately feels ashamed because of the weight on men in society who equate multiple sex partners to manhood.
These feelings aren't specific to him or men, but also to females who may be feeling the same. I have one word to tell you. All your brothers and sister ex fornicators, that came to know Jesus, ask God for forgiveness. For giving into social pressures to give up one of the most sacred part of their human body;saved to be shared with the one person God created us to be with, and to be able to multiply and subdue the earth with.
I want to explain the beautiful covenant of marriage that intimacy is worth to be saved in.
Let's read :
1 Corinthians 7:1-40
Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
There are so many other verses showing how sexually pleasing a marriage can be besides this one. How marriage can be very enjoyable, and very inviting on all fronts. How waiting to do it God's way brings:
1. Two people that are actively working to selflessly please each other.In worldly relationships where commitment of marriage is not done God's way, two people are selfish. Only looking to please themselves, and that creates a wedge between the two.
2. No soul ties to talk about. When intercourse between two people commence, this creates the joining of the souls. In the brain and heart the physical connection is created. The more partners you have the more soul ties you are creating.
Matthew 18:18 says:
Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.
Those who have had these soul ties have to really pray for God to help break them so their marriage covenant can really be as special as the day they gave their life to Jesus Christ.
3. Marriage God's way without dating the world's way lessens the practice of recreational dating damaging your relationship. In recreational dating there are two people who haven't been totally sold on each other, who hide and smother their feeling by being sexual intimate, when their feelings need to be dealt with without the access of sexual intimacy its unbearable and that's when a break up happens. As a person granted by grace to remain pure you aren't sucked into this cycle. So when you get married, when things get difficult because through courting you were able to JUST talk things out, your marriage is built on a solid rock and will last.
Brother, sister YOUR PURITY IS SO IMPORTANT ! The world's way into womanhood and manhood, that really fades once you are getting to that age when your parents are wondering why you don't have a wife or husband yet, ISN'T WORTH IT! Do not be swayed by the facade being portrayed on TV, radio, internet of bachelors and bacheloretts. It's an empty life. And these men and woman who have given their most sacred parts of their bodies prematurely yearn for a deeper love, the BEST love of all..JESUS CHRIST. You my friend have found it, or if you don't know him yet, know that sex partner or not, marriage partner or not, people die, the world fades away, but a GOD that NEVER DIES,and is perfect in Love, is someone you need and should want to know!
You are not the only virgin out there! There are a host of men and organizations who have been moved by God through the holy spirit to stand out boldly for God as Virgins till marriage.
Stephen Yamoah
You can find him on twitter @childofGod24
Email: skyballa34@yahoo.com
"He is a proud virgin till marriage, who loves Jesus "
Jeffrey Tyler
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"He is a Man of God, Speaker, Abstinence Advocate, Personality, Teacher, brother, friend, Winner, married to his lovely one wife, and waited till his marriage day to lose his virginity "
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You are not in this alone. Give your whole heart to Christ. Keep contending for the faith. Continue to believe God for your wife and husband, pray in the mean time so your discerning spirit can identify the right one when the time comes.
Here for you. Praying for you.Love you
From your Sister in Christ with a Servants Heart,
Janet Adeola Songonuga
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God bless you my sister!
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