God's design of the WOMAN

Saturday, December 28th 2013 

I really thank God for opening my eyes spiritually.For bringing me out of the dark and into the light. What I have learned through the scriptures, from wise man of God, and revelation, is I was deeply rooted in the sinful things of this world due to the lack of knowledge I knew about mysely and the makeup of a woman. I lacked the truth about the lovely wants and needs God had put in me and every young woman that's born into this world. 

This blog will seek to explain how God made a woman(female) from her purpose, to her wants, and her needs. My prayer is after reading this females themselves know they are indeed very loved, males understand the jewels in females and cherish them in words and actions, for fathers to love, keep, and protect their daughters closely, and for husbands to continue to cherish and nourish their wives with time, love, and sweet words. 

Again like the previous blogs I have written,  to understand the makeup of a female we must go back to the beginning. We read in 

Genesis 2:21-23

20 And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.

21 And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;

22 And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.

23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.

From the beginning you see the woman, Eve was created from a man. A rib was taken from a man to create this woman to be a help-meet. Why a help-meet? If you read further on in Genesis 2, you see the two Adam and Eve become one and get married. From the moment a female is born she is already beautifully designed to be a help-meet. She has been created with a need, and want because she was essentially taking out of a man. Therefore the need she aspires for consciously and subconsciously, and craves should come from a man. 

What exactly is that need?

The needs of a woman is to be loved in words, conversation, communication, and attention from a male. 

Ideally as the father of a female he is to be the man that shows his daughter this needed love, up until her husband comes. I shared more specifics on how a dad can communicate this much needed need to a daughter in my Dear Dad blog.  If the father of the daughter is not alive or has abandoned her, then a male figure who has become her guardian is also acceptable.  

As a brother or sister in Christ or biologically you are to stick up for your sister in the public and the open. You are not to hate, call her foul names you often hear from many rappers about females,or disrespect her. You are to ask her how she is doing, compliment her, correct her, and bring the best out of her as her sibling.

As a husband to your wife, she is a favor and a blessing to you:

Proverbs 18:22 

22Whosoever findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth the favor of the Lord.

And a wife is a crown unto her husband:

Proverbs 12:4 

A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband

Therefore husbands, a day you have with your wife is a true gift from the Lord. And to sustain her is to love her so you are able to present her to yourself without spots or wrinkles. You are there to not only take from her, take her cooking, cleaning, physical attention but you are to lead a way, make things easy, hear her un-package all her thoughts, vacate and unwind with her every so often. Life when married is not a time to live alone ever, its a time for you two to truly be one. A woman who stays home is not home for her own benefit to stay there and never get to spend time with her husband who goes in and out. She is also there to also be catered to by her husband.

Many females from young girls, to teenagers, to young adults, adults,married and single woman are being depraved of this basic need of love, want ,and desire to fill that void God has created within them, from a man. This leads young girls to be lead to be brainwashed and perform sexual acts from men who show them this love but then perverse and manipulate them. Young girls in this situation get a rush of happiness when the temptation and sin seeps in, so they don't shy away from it because they experience this void of love being filled. The older we get the more this desire and void grows bigger within a female, not to say this desire isn't felt in very young girls because it sure is! This void leads many woman to stripping, porn, and pre-marital relations. It's an epidemic because fathers, guardians, brothers, and husbands don't understand the makeup and wiring of a female

How do we solve this problem? To ensure females are feeling loved, the void is being filled, and each of God's daughters can reach their full potential in life?

1. To introduce the love and sacrifice of the most perfect and superior male hero that has ever graced this earth to each and every one of God's daughters; JESUS CHRIST. Introducing Jesus to a person is not done by only two parents for a certain amount of time, one parent, church folk only, or by trusting on luck. Introducing Jesus should start as soon as the guardian or parents knows Jesus for themselves. Jesus must constantly be shared with God's daughters so they know they were created with a purpose and that they are loved. If married both parents should actively engage in this process and should prove to show the daughter they love and honor God's rules. God's promises and love for our daughters are found through out the pages of the bible, which after accepting Jesus we use as our guidebook in this life on earth. God promises to comfort all those that come to him, especially to love us unconditionally. And Jesus is perfect so he exceeds any type of earthly love from humans who aren't perfect.

2 Corinthians 1:3-4

3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.

2. Father love and cherish you daughter(s).Protect and provide for her,pastor her, pray over and with her, read the Bible stories, go to church, and ask what she's learning about Jesus. You've been called to be the spiritual leader of your home. Engage with your daughter's walk with the Lord throughout her entire life. As a parent your job will be to reflect the love of Christ to your daughter and teach her to walk in His ways. Talk to her one on one often about the joy God has about keeping pure. Let her talk and unwind her thoughts to you, unless she will do it elsewhere and its most likely a guy that's giving her attention outside. Be her best male friend before she gets married, and that by intentionally telling her when you and her will go out and spend time. This relationship is critical. A Father daughter relationship must be formed.

3. Husbands should no longer live as a party of one in marriage. The wife doesn't only take the last name in the marriage. Each year of marriage should be stronger not worse than the last one. As a husband you are to be the head,leader, and lover of the marriage. Fill the need for love in your wife by taking her out, playing into her love language, again listening to her talk,and helping her with her daily duties. If these things don't happen, your wife will start to become sick, depressed, and many thing I pray will never happen. If you are to witness any of these thing, the quickest remedy is to give and love your wife like Christ loved the church and that was to give himself for us all.

A letter written by Brad Pitt was published to the public this week. In it he writes to his wife Angelina Jolie about how when she was sick,it was the simple increase of love he showed her that helped her recover from her sickness. He quotes "And then I realized one thing: the woman is the reflection of her man." A woman is indeed the reflection of man, whether it's her heavenly father who knew her purpose before she was born, her earthly father who helps provide the sperm to make her, and or her husband who is her covering in marriage!

My prayer is after reading this blog, we as females understand this need we have, know its not only because it's strong and we sometimes find ourselves craving attention from our fathers or guys outside our home, but because God created us with this need. Now we know we need to fill the void by teaching our Fathers this knowledge and talking to him about our fears and goals, we also need to build a strong relationship with Jesus Christ who is  the best man of all, and help him show us how loved we are through scriptures. So that this void is not filled with perverse things from this world, and our bodies aren't used as a display for the devil to walk over us. I pray men's eyes are open and our females are no longer robbed of the love we so need.

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From your Sister in Christ with a Servants Heart,

Janet Adeola Songonuga